Why Are You Spiritually Dependent?

Avoiding Dependency in the Spiritual Journey: The Importance of Self-Reliance and Direct Experience

In both the spiritual and everyday realms, one recurring issue that humans face is the tendency to put others down in order to gain control or establish superiority. This can happen for various reasons: some individuals seek power, others aim to feel more important, and some simply wish to take advantage of others. Unfortunately, this behavior is prevalent in many areas of life, including the spiritual field.

When it comes to spirituality, many individuals are vulnerable and looking for guidance. Often, people are willing to trust those who speak with confidence, assuming that they hold the answers. However, one crucial aspect is that we rarely verify the authenticity of what is being said. Are these individuals sharing wisdom based on personal experience, or are they just repeating concepts they’ve learned from others or read in "holy books"?

The Danger of Blind Trust and Dependency

In the spiritual realm, it is not uncommon for individuals to try and establish authority by making others feel inadequate. By convincing people that they lack the knowledge or experience to progress, these individuals create dependency. The common result? We look to these figures for answers, seeking to learn from them because we believe they are more "realized" than we are. The problem is, in many cases, we never stop to question their true authenticity.

It’s easy to become caught up in the stories people tell. The problem arises when we fail to discern truth from fiction. We become so enamored with their words that we stop listening to our own inner voice. This is where the risk lies: people often get sold on ideas that sound good but may not be grounded in real, actionable experience.

Skepticism and Self-Discovery: The Path to True Independence

It is essential not to fall into the trap of blind belief. While it’s beneficial to listen to teachers and mentors, the most important thing is to develop your own direct experience. The path to true independence and maturity involves putting the teachings you receive into practice and assessing the results for yourself. Only through this personal investigation can you determine if what you’re being told is valuable and true.

"Killing your teacher" is an expression often used to convey the idea of outgrowing the need for external authority. This doesn’t mean discarding the teacher entirely, but rather understanding that the true authority lies within yourself. Your journey is personal, and the tools you receive from others are just that—tools. How you apply them and what results you get will ultimately shape your own path.

Becoming Your Own Teacher

As a teacher myself, I don’t want people to rely on me or view me as a guru. I provide tools that I’ve received from my teachers and share insights based on my own experiences. My goal isn’t to save or fix anyone, but to offer guidance and share knowledge that may help you grow out of confusion and illusion.

Spirituality should not be about creating dependency. It’s about discovering your own potential and becoming responsible for your life. By practicing skepticism, listening to your inner voice, and seeking your own truth, you’ll cultivate the independence necessary for true spiritual growth.

Building a Responsible and Independent Spiritual Practice

In a world full of distractions, marketing, and confusion, it’s easy to fall into the trap of following the crowd. But maturity comes when we stop blindly following others and begin walking our own path. The tools I share are simply tools—your journey is yours to own. Use what resonates with you and let go of what doesn’t. Trust your inner wisdom to guide you toward what is true and meaningful for you.

Remember, life is your personal journey. Trust yourself, use the tools you’ve been given, and cultivate your own experiences. By becoming your own teacher, you create a life of independence, authenticity, and self-reliance.

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